I thought I’d write about how all that moaning is a turn on for men, or how muddy talk can get everyone all steamed up. There are lots of theories about how we use sound to increase our pleasure experience, convey our under the cover needs, or that all that moaning and groaning is a way to keep all of our senses on track and in sync.
But our ability to tap into our physical world via air waves is so much more important than heavy breathing.
It’s about listening. Listening to the other person, the person you want to connect with. Connection happens when we listen, and connection is the what, I believe, we are all really craving.
So this week partake in the most effective foreplay ever known to man. Sit down and enjoy a quiet evening of conversation, of reminiscing, of dreaming, of sharing your heart, and see if you aren’t left in a true state of euphoria.
“Listening is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. The friends who listen to us are the ones we move toward. When we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and expand.”